S15E10: Is it Chemistry or Anxiety w/ Ilana Dunn of Seeing Other People

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2022

⏱️ 74 minutes

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When you start questioning everything from whether they’ll text back to if they even like you, it can make the best of us a big ball of nerves. But is it standard pre-date jitters or a sign something is wrong? We’re chatting with Ilana Dunn about how she went from being the most anxious of daters to feeling secure in her relationship. We discuss how modern dating can make us prone to anxiety, when to lean on your friends vs trust your own instincts, and how to use your past experiences (the good and the bad) to identify signs of a healthy relationship. Follow Ilana @ilana.dunn and @seeingotherpeople and listen to Seeing Other People wherever you listen to podcasts Register now for our 22-day dating app challenge that is re-released just in time for cuffing season! Get your spot now before it's too late: https://www.findingyourperson.com/apps Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: One Love Foundation: visit JoinOneLove.org, a national non-profit dedicated to ending relationship abuse, and learn to spot the signs of unhealthy AND healthy relationship behaviors. Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts,
0:14.3	date fails to diaper fetishes,
0:16.0	and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.3	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You'll also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:28.1	You are in the right place because this is another episode of the
0:36.9	dateable podcast where we dig into modern dating culture why it is the way it is, and how we can make it better, not just from an individual level, but from an overall cultural level.
0:51.0	Don't you feel like you're part of something now?
0:53.6	Like this is not just a podcast.
0:56.1	You're part of a movement.
0:58.7	Collectively, we will save modern dating all.
1:02.1	We'll do it. I feel like it's in the most dismal state
1:06.3	that we've ever seen it so the time is now. If not now win, right? You know I
1:11.7	mean to bring it back with some of the trends we're seeing with
1:15.2	quiet quitting, everyone's probably heard that term. I feel like if it
1:19.7	follows anything similar, right? It's like the great resignation is people that are kind of fed up
1:26.8	and they want to make change and they want to make moves.
1:30.9	But then quiet quitting, you're kind of just sitting there like passively kind of letting things happen and you know in work we could debate this all day long there are some cases that it's not like totally outlandish to do what your responsibilities are and
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