S14E11: Performance Anxiety (In the Bedroom)

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Social Sciences, Science

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 4 May 2022

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Sex can be so enjoyable yet so stressful at the same time....especially when you're dating someone new. We're chatting with Dean about recovering from erectile dysfunction and what that meant for his sex life. We discuss our societies views on sex and the expectations of men, why not being able to get it up rarely has to do with the partner, and how to get through sexual dysfunctions with your partners. Want to learn more about how Dean navigated ED through therapy and other mental/psychological approaches? Feel free to reach out to him at deantalksaboutED@gmail.com Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Kraft chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:28.2	Hey friends, welcome to another episode of the
0:34.2	Dayble Podcast where we help everyone navigate the modern dating scene and
0:39.4	what is going on in today's world of dating and what is going on is that we are both
0:45.5	negative from yeah we're coven free I did a little coven free dance you
0:51.1	hey you'd be proud of me
0:52.0	wait you just did it or you did it before?
0:56.0	Well I did it when I got the negative tests.
0:58.0	Oh, okay, no, okay, I thought, all right, good.
1:00.0	Well I'm sad you didn't record that and send it to me.
1:03.0	You're like, did I miss something? I missed it. You did it so fast?
1:06.2	You're like, were you doing that in your seat? No, I did it for my partner.
1:10.6	He's told me that my weird side comes out for him and I'm like
1:13.4	compared to you a I'm not weird at all listen weird is good. No no he loves it
1:18.8	your most authentic self that's when you're most authentic. I was like, I feel like if I told you that you thought I was weird, she would laugh because you're always like,
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