S13E8: He's Just Not That Into You w/ Greg Behrendt

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2021

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

Y'all remember those infamous 6 words in Sex in the City: He's just not that into you. l remember those infamous 6 words in Sex in the City: He's just not that into you. But now we're chatting with the man who coined the phrase comedian Greg Behrendt about his no bullsh*t advice – and how it holds up 20 years later. We discuss why people hold onto situationships that aren't serving them, how to identify if someone isn't fully in, and the differences between real-life relationships and ones portrayed in Hollywood. Follow Greg at @itsgreggers and@dtbffpodcast and listen to Don't Take Bullshit From F*ckers on your favorite podcast player Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Drizly: Use the code SPICE5 for $5 off your order of beer, wine or liquor by going to https://drizly.com or downloading the Drizly app FirstLeaf: Join today and get 6 bottles of wine for $29.95 and free shipping at tryfirstleaf.com/dateable and use the code DATEABLE. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Kraft chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy datable world.
0:28.1	Hello, datables. Welcome to another episode of the
0:34.5	Datable Podcast where it is our mission Julie and I to help you figure out why people
0:39.6	do the things they do, why they say the things that they say, and then how you can navigate it all in this world
0:46.7	called Modern Dating.
0:48.0	That's a lot.
0:50.0	I love...
0:51.0	We come full circle.
0:52.0	I know, and we are taking a trip back in time. We are traveling back to
0:56.3	2004 when the book he's just not that into you was released. We have Greg Barrett who is the author that you know I'm sure
1:05.4	pretty much any everyone has heard the phrase he's just not that into you.
1:08.9	It started with Sex of the City he was a writer on the show became a movie and I feel like it was like the
1:15.7	words of wisdom that many women listen to and I would say debatably we can argue that
1:20.8	now it just should be they are just not that it to you because I think the same thing applies to all genders,
1:26.7	all sexualities, all of that.
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