S13E10: The 80/80 Marriage w/ Nate & Kaley Klemp

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 20 October 2021

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

Whether you're single AF or you've been living together for years, we're about to introduce you to a new model for happier, stronger relationships as we chat with Nate & Kaley Kemp. We discuss why the 50/50 model of equal relationships is flawed, how to navigate the transitions that inevitably happen from dating to a more committed relationship, and the necessary structural shifts that set your relationship up for success. Follow Nate & Kaley at @8080marriage and get their book 'The 80/80 Marriage' today: https://www.8080marriage.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order at prose.com/dateable Hello Fresh: Hello Fresh: For 14 free meals from America's #1 meal kit (and free shipping) use the code DATEABLE14 at hellofresh.com/dateable14 BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Kraft chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy datable world.
0:28.1	Hi, datables.
0:32.4	Welcome to another episode of the
0:34.5	The Dateable Podcast, a show all about the sociology of dating
0:38.8	because we've been observing dating behaviors for years now, and we want to dig into the why so people's
0:45.2	behavior so we can get to the house of bettering people's behavior including
0:51.0	yourself. Absolutely I feel like it's always yourself. It always comes down to yourself.
0:56.0	But I'm excited today because we're going a little past early dating.
1:00.0	We're going all the way to marriage, but what's really interesting about this episode is that it's super relatable to all stages of relationships.
1:08.8	We definitely dig into it. The authors that we talked to wrote a book called The 80-80 Marriage,
1:15.0	Nate and Kaye Kemp. And what was interesting about it is I think when you're
1:19.5	dating, if you are your goal is marriage or committed partnership.
1:24.0	Sometimes it can feel the long ways off, but I think it's really good to hear this stuff from people that have been through it.
1:31.0	One of the guests, Kayley, she mentioned
1:33.4	it was kind of like when you're about to give birth.
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