And when you say they have such a good vibe, that's actually short for vibration.

I, doesn't that sound so stupid once it comes out of my mouth, but it's true.

They give off such a good vibe.

That's short for vibration. Anyway, people are saying vibration now. Don't know why.

Kind of like it, kind of don't. And the What's good fam? It is your boy, J.J. in the studio today. We got a mini-manseau coming your way today's episode I can't wait I can't

wait I say this a lot and I genuinely mean it every single time but if I go back in and my time machine and strap little

20 year old j. J.J. to a chair first of all I'd love to just show them up and

show them what a beast you know I've become and strapped a little scrawny guy to a chair and

show them what a real man looks like. But number two, I would make him listen to an episode just like this. Hey man, my hot take and what I need you to listen to today is this.

It should be totally okay and a great thing for you to date your friend.

So this episode today is not just for you,

it's also for you in your friend group.

Like if you have a friend in your friend group,

you should absolutely be one of the champions and ambassadors and

one of those friends who is encouraging your friend to go out with their friends.

Like I know how it works.

I've been in lots of community groups as a young adult, as a later adult as a single.

Everyone's friends with everyone and you always have that one friend who's interested in someone else or slightly

interested or you too see them like on the side of Bible study getting along pretty well.

You should absolutely pull them aside and say hey I couldn't help but notice

you two are getting along so well I happen to know Hannah for years now she is the

best like I could not recommend her enough so if you just

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