Please don't further the damage of hurting them more by dating them and yoking yourself with them and distracting them longer

So that they can be attracted to you and sleep with you and do all these things with you. It's like they're hurting

Point them to the healer and same

and same for yourself. If you're going through things that you know need to be

addressed, pursue that health first. Like the Lord will bring about a community if you're looking for it to to walk alongside. Oh, What's good fam? It's your boy JJ and it's just me today. We have a fun episode coming your way apparently I'm a boring guy.

I don't know if you could ever say anything more offensive to an anyagram 7

than you're a boring guy.

But hey, today's episode is really fun.

I think it's great for women, especially for women

who might have dated chaotic personalities in the past, where there's a lot of maybe trauma coming up to the surface there's a lot of toxicity

I think the boring guy in this conversation is so fascinating we actually have a great episode coming out with Dev Palaida where she says what is familiar is attractive and so if you have a familiar pass with chaos and someone who's just I again I don't like the word

toxic I think it's just way throwing out there way blown over it kind of

loses its meaning for really those situations that are are terrible right and then we just

throw toxic out for just you know maybe not so bad of a situation or we were a lot more at

fault than we like to admit but if that's what's familiar for you, that's what you're

going to be attracted to. So the boring guys kind of like going from off-roading, a roller coaster or something that's just

crazy, spontaneous, and good ways and bad to driving on a smooth

interstate and that's going to seem very unfamiliar. It's also going to seem maybe somewhat boring

but that's the best thing for your car and that nice long

road trip that you have ahead of you so that's the episode today.

Quick notes on housekeeping.

Hey we got Camp H-O-D.

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