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You think you know me, you don't know me well. episode notes. Thank you so much for listening. within you don't know anybody within about within about 30 minutes of me posting that,

I got a message on Facebook from the woman that he was living with.

She had apparently seen where it had been reposted,

and she looked at what I had posted along with it.

And she sent me a message on Facebook and she said, who is Jim to you?

Because I've been with him for the past 10 years.

I was totally freaking out in that moment because it was like, oh my God, oh my God, I know who she is

and now she knows who I am. I remember calling one of my best friends and being like, I don't know

what to do. Should I respond to her? Should I ignore it? I don't know what to do. And at that same time,

Jim was down here in my living room in a full-blown conversation with my mom. And as I'm

coming down the stairs, I hear him say, hold on, I need to take this call and he walks out the door.

And I can tell when he walks out the back door that he's kind of in this state of distress. You can tell by the

look on his face, he gets off the phone and he's

just going in on me. And he's like, why did you post this stuff? I told you not to do that. He was like,

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