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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S12E9: Make Dating Fun Again w/ Jeff Harry

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Science, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 7 April 2021

⏱️ 93 minutes

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Summary

We often hear 'dating is like a job' or 'dating sucks'....but it doesn't have to! We're chatting with positive psychology coach and play expert Jeff Harry about how to see dating as play and have more fun in the process. We discuss how shared experiences form deeper connections, why playful doesn’t have to mean surface level, and how anyone can turn on their playful side at a comfort level that works for you. Follow Jeff at @jeffharryplays and learn more about him at his website: https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com Read his article about how to see dating like play: https://jeffharryplays.medium.com/how-to-see-dating-as-play-7e8bf36c077c Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Apostrophe: Get $15 off your first visit with a board-certified dermatologist with the code DATEABLE at apostrophe.com/dateable Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the

0:04.8

Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each

0:09.5

episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper

0:15.3

fetishes, and first moves to first loves.

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I'm your host, U.S.U.

0:19.4

Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:22.0

You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Kraft chick

0:25.2

as we explore this crazy datable world.

0:28.1

Hello everyone, welcome to another episode of Datable, a show all about modern

0:36.7

dating where we dig into the wise of people's behavior when it comes to dating

0:42.3

including your own behavior.

0:44.4

Every week we're like, this was an eventful week, this was an eventful week.

0:48.4

This week was not that eventful.

0:50.0

They got.

0:51.0

That's good.

0:52.0

I feel like we got to a point in this whole cycle that we're like, you know what,

0:55.8

we can maybe do our intro not as close to the day that we put out the episode because things aren't

1:01.2

changing as fast. We've stabilized and then like the last

1:04.4

couple weeks we're like, nope, we're going to bring it in again. So it's nice when things aren't

1:08.5

going crazy in the world. I had an epiphany Julie and I'll just tell you what happened this past week.

1:14.8

It's related to stop Asian hate, hashtag if you're on YouTube you can see it right behind me.

1:20.7

Just having a conversation with a few friends and we're talking about big brands and whether they should put out a message on

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