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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S12E13: Is it Love or Love Bombing? w/ Dr. Diane

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Sexuality, Social Sciences, Relationships, Science, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2021

⏱️ 89 minutes

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Summary

When you're getting showered with gifts, attention or affection, we want to feel like it's the real deal. But how do you know that this isn't narcissistic behavior disguised as grand gestures? Have no fear, we're breaking down what love bombing really is with Dr. Diane aka Back to Love Doc. We discuss the signs to watch out for, how attachment style plays into the equation, and how to be smart but not skeptical when dating. Follow Dr. Diane @backtolovedoc and take her Love Styles quiz at https://backtolovedoc.com/love-styles/ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Prose: Get 15% off your first order of custom shampoo and conditioner by going to prose.com/dateable Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the

0:04.8

Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each

0:09.5

episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper

0:15.3

fetishes, and first moves to first loves.

0:17.8

I'm your host, U.S.U.

0:19.4

Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:22.0

You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick

0:25.2

as we explore this crazy dateable world.

0:28.1

Hello everyone, welcome to another episode of

0:34.3

dateable a show all about modern dating where we dig dig into the

0:39.3

wise of people's behavior and why they say the shit that they do even if it's good shit is always

0:46.1

shit no matter what right can be good shit there can be good shit

0:50.7

shit is just like a new term for stuff, convos, vibes, you know, all that word vomit that comes out of your mind.

0:58.4

All-encompassing.

0:59.4

Yeah, but yeah, we had some really great couple last episodes really showcasing our hosts that we have in our sounding board group that lead the podcast discussion groups and the weekly happy hours and now we've kind of announced that

1:14.7

we've upgraded them to also be moderators in the public loving the time at Corona

1:19.2

group. So it's really nice hearing all their stories and just getting to know them at like an even

1:23.6

deeper level. And what I really loved about these interviews is that we learned

1:27.4

about their plan post-Covid. What are they playing to do with their love lives post-COVID? What did they learn during COVID that they're taking into this new reality?

1:39.5

And it just reminds me of this transitional time that we're in right now.

1:44.3

Julie and I both have had our second shots.

1:47.4

So we're, I guess, at this point, fully vaccinated.

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