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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S11E11: Politics Aside: A Blind Date Experiment

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Science, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2020

⏱️ 99 minutes

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Summary

Can you date someone with opposing political views? We set up Tom and Kiki to check-in through various points of their virtual blind date about how they're feeling from when politics are off the table to when they're open to debate. We discuss when politics should come into the discussion on a first date, how they play into our values for a long-term relationship, and how we can start to break through this divide a bit more...romantic or not. NOTE: for anyone triggered by this topic, our guests are not extremists in any way....just two people who see the world a bit differently. Without giving away too much, they were able to have an open discussion in a peaceful way. We learned a lot and hope you can too. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex.

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On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes,

0:15.0

and first moves to first loves.

0:17.0

I'm your host, U.S.U. former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:21.0

You'll also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Kraftchick as we explore this crazy

0:26.0

dateable world.

0:27.0

Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of

0:32.8

Datable a show all about modern dating where we dig into the

0:38.0

why y ys of people's behavior when it comes to dating. Yes, I've brought a condom for my mic.

0:47.8

Safety first. Oh my God. Safety first for anyone who can't see I put this black

0:51.8

con, literally a black condom over my mic as if it wasn't

0:55.6

phallic looking enough now we're just making the tip even bigger but I feel like

0:59.8

Julie likes it she's mesmerized by it she can't stop staring at it. And speaking of dating,

1:05.3

Julie's been dating. Everyone wants to hear the update about Julie's recent dates or date, I say or no I won't give it away just give the update

1:17.4

I feel like we heard the snafu last week for anyone that missed it there was a tech glitch error that like I didn't

1:27.2

get a text from what's app but I finally got it on Thursday the The guy had sent it on Saturday.

1:34.2

So anyways, we talk, we make a plan.

1:36.7

Like he was the ones who initiate like setting up a plan

1:39.6

for the following week.

1:41.4

So I'm like, okay, this is, you you know I was actually getting more excited about it because I know also we talked about like my feeling towards it and I had mentioned that because it was a socially distant date and we had talked about politics a lot like I didn't

1:55.2

really have a feel for it like I enjoyed myself but didn't really get to a deeper

1:59.7

level but I was totally open but also wouldn't be devastated if it didn't work out.

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