For the guys, we're always going to be nervous to ask out the girls.

And for the girls, there's always going to be the desire to talk about the guys.

To change the dating culture of your young adults group is. What's up, up, fam? This is J.J. As you know, we got a mini-man so today and I know you guys are kind of

of wondering like one bullet theology, one bullet dating, what in the world is this all about I know it's not the most

informative title but I promise we will get into it today I'm just excited to talk to you because let me just tell you this if you have not

gathered what it's about if you've not guessed what it's about I will tell you of all the

issues and all the challenges we see in the dating landscape,

in the Christian church, especially,

it is this problem.

It is this pain point.

It's by far and away, D number one.

But before jumping in today, we going to do a question from the

audience what I'm loving and then we're going to jump right in so today's

question from Instagram which by the way guys girls, because I know you guys sneak in here and listen to, my

DMs are open. If you guys have a situation where you need some help, my DMs are open. I know it's hard to ask for help I'm a guy too but if you're frustrated

your challenge and you're humble enough go ahead and ask me I got you and yes I do check my

DMs this one is from a girl. It's a little special one today and she

asked I recently met a guy who checks so many healthy boxes. She included like five owes but his desire to spend one-on-one time with girls

he's been friends with forever and has never been romantic with has just turned me

off completely.

Do you have any advice?

Or am I off here?

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