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Heart of Dating

S11: Mini Man-sode 40: Are You Obsessed with Your Future Spouse?

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2023

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Today JJ unpacks part one of the difference between preparing for your future spouse and being obsessed with your future spouse. He gives warning signs at the end.  Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends! Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I really wrestle with what I wanted to talk to you guys about because I think there's a crowd listening to this who's like if I had to be transparent I have maybe tended to obsess with my future spouse and then there's another

0:15.2

portion the other half of the crowd honestly JJ like those people are

0:19.8

obsessed about their future spouse I don't get. If I had to list out all the scriptures

0:24.2

that we have about dating specifically, here they are. There's none. done. What's up,

0:52.8

up fam, it's your boy, J.J.

0:55.2

We got another Minnie so Friday.

0:58.3

We don't have very many of these left until the new year, so thank you guys for writing with us. As far as updates and what I'm

1:06.0

loving and everything you guys need to know, I would just say, hey, I'm going to start doing more guest interviews in 2024.

1:15.8

I'm super pumped.

1:16.9

I know you guys are pumped.

1:18.8

You're like, I'm tired of just hearing this guy solo,

1:21.2

talking and yapping, hey am too okay I am too so I'm with you guys

1:27.3

now I'm just playing but hey I would love to know who would you guys like to see come on you know these are man sods who do you

1:35.8

think from a female and male perspective it would be really really awesome on to

1:40.7

bring and I'm gonna ask anybody and everybody like no one's off limits for me

1:46.0

personally I just I love people who are engaging who are challenging who are smart

1:51.2

They don't have to perfectly agree with me. We can have a little bit more of, you know, embrace the bait.

1:57.0

As Christians, I hope and pray at our best, we can take someone with a completely opposite point of view and treat them with so much

2:05.3

grace and kindness that even though we do not agree at all they can at least agree and

2:10.9

respect how we are treating them as a human being in that sense.

2:15.8

And so I would love to know who you guys would love to see.

2:17.8

As far as what I'm loving and personal life, I would just say this, hey, 2024 is on the horizon.

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