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Heart of Dating

S11: Mini Man-sode 38: Why You Should NOT Pray for Your Future Spouse

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 10 November 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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In today’s episode JJ is unpacking if praying for your future spouse even matters and if you should or shouldn’t do it.  Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends! Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I did not pray for my spouse for a couple of reasons, but probably the top reason was because

0:08.1

it had nothing to do with Kate, it had nothing to do with necessarily the idea of praying for your spouse first.

0:14.0

It had everything to do with my heart about prayer.

0:17.6

And I just spiritually arrived at a place where I was so cynical about prayer. Oh, What's up, up,

0:45.0

up fam is JJ, this is a mini-manseau Friday. I'm not gonna lie. I get excited for a lot of episodes but today in particular

0:57.0

I hope you guys really really enjoy I'm actually not a huge fan of praying for your future spouse which is what I will get into in a bit.

1:07.5

I promise there's a good reason why please don't cancel me or call me a heathen.

1:13.0

Let me just explain.

1:14.5

Let me just explain, okay?

1:16.4

But before we get into that,

1:18.0

I just want to let you guys know about some housekeeping items.

1:20.8

Again, if you guys are going to heart of dating conference and you are a

1:25.3

dude hit me up on Instagram j j jj j tumbling i'm happy to plug you into the group if you're

1:32.0

coming to heart of Dating conference alone, please let me help you out.

1:36.7

I want to be there for you. Every single individual person matters to us. We want you guys have a great experience and sometimes the

1:44.4

best way to do that is in community. So I'm so proud and just blown away

1:49.7

when people decide to come to something like conference alone,

1:53.1

like I say this all the time.

1:55.6

I don't know if I would have done that as a single.

1:58.5

Like it just takes a tremendous amount of like courage.

2:01.8

You almost have that like YOLO, screw it, kind of, you know, mentality. of like

2:03.0

YOLO screw it kind of you know mentality which I think is great like that's taking a risk it's pretty

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