What's up fam? This is J.J. We are back with season three of the many Manso Fridays.

Let's go. I cannot believe Kate has let us go on this long.

It's been so fun.

I hope you guys really enjoy that one-two punch of the week.

We'd like to get nitty gritty on Wednesdays with Kate.

And then hopefully these, well, what's ironic is last season we said these

are supposed to be fun and short and then you guys know we went there we got thick and

heavy with scripture we talked about a headship, we talked about submission, we talked about some of these really

hard topics from a male's point of view, which I actually really enjoy some of these things

if you grow up, you you know with any kind of

Christian household you know we're taught things and sometimes we never look look

them up we we don't really know why we believe the things we believe. And so sometimes

it's really awesome to just get under the hood of our spiritual life, our beliefs and ask, why do I believe

this? Is this true? what was the teaching at the time

actually saying and how does that apply to my life today so this whole season

we are doing red flags which is super fun because as we've talked about people use

red flags and they use deal breakers interchangeably the hard reality of life is that

I have to look into the mirror and admit one thing.

I have red flags too. Why? Because I'm a human being and red flags are really just these are things in my character

These are things in my personality these are things in my personality these are just

tendencies where I fail okay I have a great a fail and what I love about that from a

spiritual lens is just because this is my weakness doesn't mean it just has to be my weakness.

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