S1 Ep92: I Never Stayed Past the Honeymoon Phase and Here’s Why feat. Brenden Durell

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2023

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Are you struggling with the fear of commitment? Feeling like there’s something wrong with you because all of your relationships have ended shortly after the honeymoon phase? You're not alone! Join Brenden Durell as he talks about his own experiences with the fear of commitment and how he learned to address it. In this video, Brenden will be opening up about why he never stayed past the honeymoon phase and how to combat the fear of commitment. It's time to give love another chance!

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0:00.0	This episode is for anyone who's ever experienced the pain and emptiness of an incredible
0:04.4	connection that just never went anywhere.
0:06.9	I was here for the fireworks show, but then I would dip out, you know, things and work out.
0:11.3	I didn't have the capacity.
0:12.1	And I like to say it's like, we know the term kaboom.
0:16.0	It's like, I was here for the ka, but I would like dip for the boom, you know?
0:19.8	And I was like, that was my MO.
0:21.8	And in working with so many men over the years, I'm like, I see this pattern not just for me
0:26.8	being that way in the past, but also a lot of men, being so open and available for the
0:31.6	beginning stages of connection, but then not having the capacity or not choosing to have
0:37.2	the capacity to be able to be there
0:40.0	in open communication and vulnerability in deciding whether this is going to go the long
0:44.7	distance or it's just a now thing.
0:47.2	If you've ever experienced a connection like this, whether you're the one addicted to the
0:51.1	thrill of the new or you were once the new toy thrown to the side
0:55.2	once the novelty wore off, I promise you're going to get some answers and maybe even some
1:00.1	new important questions during this episode of,
1:02.8	Lovers and Friends, I'm going to take you on a trip, baby, I don't pretend, I said,
1:08.9	Lovers and Friends, I'm going to hold you down down to the end, I said.
1:13.7	Hi there, lovers and friends.
1:15.1	Welcome to Lovers and Friends of Podcast.
1:16.7	My name is Sham Budram.
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