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Heart of Dating

S1 Ep8: Let’s Talk about Sex… and Abstinence with Kat Harris

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 23 May 2018

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Kat discusses being abstinent, the definition of , and what it's like to pursue it living as a single woman n NYC. She also goes into the WHY of abstinence. Today Kait sits down with the incredible Kat Harris for a REAL convo on the conversation of SEX… the journey of one woman’s abstinence. Kat is a Brooklyn based photographer, educator, and the Co-Founder of the online magazine The Refined Woman. She also is a podcast #BOSS and started The Refined Collective Podcast as well. Her mission is really to empower women to embrace their beauty, identity, and value through the art of story telling. She is a woman with a big heart and a whole lot of TALENT. She also loves God family yoga AND BEYONCE (duh) and the Biebs. Today we dive into her story of navigating her sexuality and figuring out what sex truly meant to her as a woman. Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends! Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://getfaithful.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Heart of Dating Podcast.

0:04.0

Hey, it's Kate.

0:07.0

I'm so glad you could join us this week as we try to entangle the ever so ambiguous world of dating as a Christian.

0:13.3

Over here on Heart of Dating, we get real,

0:15.5

as we answer some tough questions and uncover transformative ways

0:19.1

to approach Christian dating.

0:21.2

Oh, and you better believe we have some laughs along the way because last time I checked the

0:25.8

struggle is hashtag real you know what I'm saying?

0:30.3

Now let's get to the heart of the matter.

0:40.0

Let's talk about sex baby. Let's talk about oh my my gosh, hey guys,

0:43.0

sorry about that awful singing.

0:44.4

I am just trying my best right now

0:46.3

to get you pumped and ready today for our combo.

0:49.5

Because that's right, we are going there.

0:51.6

I am talking to Kat Harris, a girlfriend of mine who lives in New York, who is 32 and still abstaining from sex. She is,

0:59.3

Sexless in the

1:05.0

city city, if you will, a phrase that she totally coined.

1:03.0

She is a Brooklyn-based photographer, educator,

1:06.0

and the co-founder of the online magazine, The Refined Woman.

1:10.0

She also is a podcast boss and started the Refine Collective Podcast as well.

1:15.2

Her mission is really to empower women to embrace their beauty, identity, and value

1:20.4

through the art of storytelling.

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