S07.39: Dysfunctional Families (The Fun Kind)
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Fated Mates
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🗓️ 17 June 2025
⏱️ 85 minutes
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Summary
This week, we're talking about romance's most common family: the dysfunctional one! Sarah wrote a book about one, so we're thinking about what makes them special to romance, and what sets the romantic dysfunctional family apart from the ones that live outside of the genre. Jen has five categories. There's a game involved. You can play along at home!
If you love this one, you can listen to our Daddy Issues (not the fun kind) episode with C. Travis Rice. And if you just want to listen to an episode about Daddies (the fun kind), we've got you.
Sarah's book, These Summer Storms is out in three weeks and she is going on tour! What's more, there is a real deal Fated Mates LIVE planned for July 8th in St. Louis, MO! Get tickets to any of these events (Jen will be at a bunch of them, and other pod friends will be popping up along the way) at sarahmaclean.net/tour! If you can't make the tour, you can preorder These Summer Storms signed with a special romance dust jacket from The Ripped Bodice.
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The Books
- The Filthy Rich Americans series by Nikki Sloan
- The Uptown Girls Series by Joanna Shupe
- The Dukes in Disguise Series by Louisa Darling
- American Royalty by Tracey Livesay
- Along Came Amor by Alexis Daria
- One and Only by Jenny Holiday
- The Billionaire’s Bargain by Naima Simone
- Lead by Kylie Scott
- After Hours on Milagro Street by Angelina M. Lopez
- Dark Needs at Night’s Edge by Kresley Cole
- The Player by Kresley Cole
- Preferential Treatment by Heather Guerre
- Darkest Sins and Sweet Prison by Neva Altaj
- The Dangerous Royals Series by Annika Martin
- Natural Born Charmer by Susan Elizabeth Phillips
- Dream a Dream by Susan Elizabeth Phillips
- A Kingdom of Dreams by Judith McNaught
- Beautiful Beast by Neva Altaj
- Welcome to Temptation by Jennifer Crusie
- The Scandal and Scoundrel Series by Sarah MacLean
- The Proposition by Judith Ivory
- The Blue Cedar Falls Series by Jeanne Chin
- Just for the Summer by Abby Jimenez
- The Takeover Effect by Nisha Sharma
- The Vega Family Love Stories Series by Natalie Cana
- Mistakes Were Made by Meryl Wilsner
Notes
- If you love Derek Craven, check out the newest entry at the Fated Mates Collections Department, Spectacular Spectacles courtesy of Sanj.
- You can listen to our Susan Elizabeth Phillips episode as you do your “one a days.” (When we recorded all the eBooks were on sale, but they aren’t anymore. SORRY.)
- According to Psychology Today, there are 5 specific types of dysfunctional families.
- Taking the Finger, explained
- Jen called it a Drive-Thru in Dream a Little Dream, but she meant a DRIVE-IN. Maybe go to one if you want and report back, idk! Or the new version is this Rooftop Cinema Club, where you sit together with bluetooth headphones.
- A great discussion of why it’s problematic or damaging to always redeem the family, read this powerful essay about why queer people have the right to leave their harmful family members behind by Nathan Burgoine.
Sponsors
- Kristen Jennings, author of Lessons From a Tour Guide, available in print, ebook, audiobook or with your monthly subscription to Kindle Unlimited.
- Amy James, author of Crash Test, available in print, ebook, or audio from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Kobo, Apple or wherever you get your books.
- JL Birchwood, author of Power Ballad, available in print, ebook, or with your monthly subscription to Kindle Unlimited.
The Rest
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| 0:00.0 | So somebody messaged me on threads today, and I thought it would be fun to bring this to the table. |
| 0:07.8 | Ozzie Empath messaged me publicly, and she said, is Derek Craven Day still a thing? |
| 0:15.4 | Because dang, I need a day in solidarity with others to think about his greatness. |
| 0:22.6 | And I replied February 4th. |
| 0:25.5 | Because Derek Craven Day is indeed February 4th. |
| 0:31.1 | And you, that is our day. |
| 0:32.8 | Our day of celebration and solidarity. |
| 0:36.0 | This came because Sange asked about. |
| 0:38.2 | We're still doing collections, |
| 0:39.6 | and if you are interested |
| 0:41.7 | when you went up this week that Sange did, |
| 0:44.6 | we had her on a Derek Raven Day, right, |
| 0:46.8 | to talk about the other, |
| 0:48.3 | the Claypice hero continuum. |
| 0:50.4 | The pantheon of Claypus heroes. |
| 0:52.4 | And it was all about, like, |
| 1:11.9 | characters who wear glasses. And the thing that was really funny is she was doing some, and this is like, you know, I do like seeing this. Like it was originally a thread where she was kind of like, hey, when you think of glasses and romance or whatever. And so it was really funny to see like what people, you know, kind of like wrote about or mentioned or books. Would you believe by the time I got in there like 14 hours |
| 1:17.4 | later, there were 60 people in that in that thread, not one mention. The outrage of Mr. Craven. |
| 1:24.8 | I mean, you know, he did it first, he did it best. |
| 1:28.8 | Know your betters, everyone. |
| 1:31.3 | You guys don't know this, but Derek Craven invented the idea of grinding lenses. |
| 1:35.8 | I mean. |
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