Rupture & Repair
Selective Ignorance with Mandii B
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.4 • 3.5K Ratings
🗓️ 3 June 2022
⏱️ 86 minutes
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Summary
This Week Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by relationship expert and host of Dates and Mates Podcast, Damona Hoffman
The ladies talk about some ways to be vulnerable in a relationship, how to have effective communication with your partner (3:30), the importance of flexibility while dating, and what it means to have relationship anarchy (25:00).
Damona shares why silence is an effective strategy during a disagreement (1:00:00), and shares some signs that may signal YOU ARE NOT ready to start dating again.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys, welcome to another episode of see the thing |
| 0:03.9 | I'm your girl Mandy B. |
| 0:06.0 | I'm Bridget Kelly and we are about to get into a good conversation this week |
| 0:10.0 | We're doing things a little bit different, but as always we are still gonna say honest grown and slightly toxic over |
| 0:15.3 | Yeah, it's deep today. It's deep today. We have a really incredible guest |
| 0:19.1 | We do we do and we're so honored to have her because she is really an ex we say expert |
| 0:24.4 | We don't use the word lightly |
| 0:25.4 | We can't use the word lightly right because there's a lot of people that claim to be experts |
| 0:28.7 | There's stuff you know self-appointed |
| 0:30.9 | But this woman's her track record speaks for itself, but |
| 0:34.7 | Man Mandy I'll let you because you yeah, you actually are way more familiar with |
| 0:39.1 | I do want to give a round of applause guys today. We have |
| 0:43.6 | Dermona Hoffman up in the motherfucking building. Yes, and she is she's a race relationship expert and she is also |
| 0:51.1 | The leading dating coach for okay, keep it correct. That is true |
| 0:55.3 | Yeah, that is me. How do you become a dating coach or an expert in relationships? |
| 1:01.5 | Especially now well originally I was self-appointed Bridget |
| 1:07.5 | I was an intending to be a dating expert. I just actually was working in casting for TV and I found that which is dating |
| 1:17.0 | You get it. I'll break it down for the listeners like I was teaching actors how to have have head shots that would stand out and |
| 1:23.3 | And get so they could get in the room and get chosen so they get shot |
| 1:28.0 | And then I was online dating at the time and I realized that basically head shot dating profile photo first date audition |
| 1:36.4 | So I wasn't trying to coach people on dating but I figured it out and then people started coming to me and saying you met this great guy |
| 1:43.6 | How'd you do it? So I'd say well? This is what I did with my dating profile and from there it's just snowballed and then I after |
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