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Dadville with Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin

Rupture and Repair: Embracing the Messy Reality of Parent-Child Relationships

Dadville with Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin

That Sounds Fun Network

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.91.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 April 2026

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

LOCAL GOVERNMENT IS HERE! The legendary Sissy Goff and David Thomas join us this week. Things get off to a wild start when host Dave realizes that a woman who changed his life decades ago is actually David’s sister. Once the shock wears off, the group discusses the duo’s new book about raising capable kids in a world that feels increasingly fragile. They explore why today’s kids are hesitant to do hard things, like getting a driver’s license, and how the pandemic created a cocoon of safety. You will hear about the importance of practicing flexibility—even if it means causing a dinner table crisis by moving one seat to the left—and why parents must manage their own anxiety while watching their children struggle. From aggressive New York bagel shops to eighth-grade boys sleeping in a gas leak pose, this episode is all about trading protection for preparation. Check out their new book: https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com/capablebook Join us: ⁠http://dadville.substack.com⁠ Thanks to our Sponsors: Quince - Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://quince.com/dadville⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! Cove - Check out Cove at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://covesmart.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use code DAD for an additional 10% off your first order! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:03.2

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0:07.2

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0:30.7

Dadville.

0:35.3

Yeah.

0:36.4

Hi, I'm Dave Barnes.

0:37.6

And I'm John McLaughlin.

0:38.8

And welcome to Dadville.

0:40.9

Dadville is a podcast where we talk about life, love, and the pursuit of awesome dadding.

0:46.2

It's funny thoughts and deep talks.

0:48.3

So please, enjoy your time here in Dadville and enjoy this episode with...

0:52.5

Sissy Goff and David Thomas

0:55.8

The Mayor and Governor

1:00.6

Everybody just wants more of y'all

1:03.4

Can I be honest with y'all

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