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Rule The Empire Between Your Ears | We Reap What We Sow

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Education, Stoicism, Stoic, Ryan Holiday, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Business, Daily Stoic, Stoic Philosophy, Philosophy, 694393

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🗓️ 27 October 2023

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Epictetus, who was a slave, looked around at Nero’s court and saw rich and famous men who were less free than he was. Because they spent all their energy trying to get more than what they had, because their happiness was tied up in what other people thought, because their fears were based on things that were not up to them. In The Girl Who Would Be Free (our fable based on the life of Epictetus), Epictetus’ father says that to be great, we first have to focus on “the empire between our ears.” He’s referring to our thoughts, our emotions, our urges, our desires, our fears…our own choices.

In The Girl Who Would be Free, Ryan Holiday’s beautifully illustrated, all-ages fable, we learn how Epictetus went from a slave to one of the most influential philosophers of all time. This book, along with The Boy Who Would Be King, are great for helping explain Stoic philosophy to your kids. You can pick up signed and personalized copies here.

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And in today's excerpt from The Daily Stoic, Ryan reminds us to detangle ourselves from toxic uncontrollable situations. As Seneca quotes "Crimes return to their teachers" giving us insight on treating people how we want to be treated.

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Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcasts. On Friday, we do double duty, not just reading our daily

1:09.2

meditation, but also reading a passage from the Daily Stoic, my book, 366 Meditations on wisdom,

1:16.2

Perseverance in the Heart of Living, which I wrote with my wonderful collaborator, translator,

1:21.6

and literary agent, Stephen Hanselman. So today, we'll give you a quick meditation from the Stoics

1:27.2

with some analysis from me and then we'll send you out into the world to turn these words in

1:33.6

Torx.

1:40.9

Rule the empire between your ears. It'd be nice to be the head honcho. It would be cool to be the

1:47.2

owner. It'd be nice to look out over a vast bit of territory and say, this is all mine.

1:52.6

This is the fantasy. This is the ambition that drives so many of us that drove so many in the

1:57.2

ancient world too. But as the Stoics noted, when we pursue power control or money, we end up neglecting

2:03.4

what's right in front of us. Epictetus, who was a slave, looked at Nero's court and saw rich and

2:08.9

famous men who were less free than he was because they spent all their energy trying to get more than

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