Ruby Franke & Jodi Hildebrandt (Chapter 3)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 16 October 2023
⏱️ 70 minutes
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00:00 The possibility of bad therapy
05:19 Asking for reviews
13:53 Distortions & truth
18:02 License suspension & revocation
25:31 Religion & therapy
46:18 'Controlling parents' & getting ahead of accusations
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October 16, 2023
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| 0:00.0 | Hey dessert listeners, I thought I would do a follow up series of episodes to the new story |
| 0:06.4 | about Ruby Frankie and Jody Hildebrand. I have learned new things. I should tell everyone |
| 0:12.9 | that I'm recording this right now September 29. So this is part six in my series on this very |
| 0:19.8 | difficult news story. Let's watch. So comment number one is I've gone to multiple different |
| 0:26.2 | therapists and what seems to happen is that it initially feels okay but as I keep going I just |
| 0:32.8 | get worse and worse until things are so bad I can't keep going. I've never gotten anything out |
| 0:37.7 | of therapy that I couldn't get from just talking to people on the internet which actually has been |
| 0:42.4 | more productive for me. Okay so I want to remind people that I'm watching this clip on the Mormon |
| 0:48.4 | Stories podcast. They are talking with a number of therapists about ethics and the Mormon |
| 0:55.2 | Church and they are reviewing different clips that Jody Hildebrand and Ruby Frankie put out. |
| 1:01.6 | And so in this clip Ruby Frankie is reading a comment on Instagram of someone who was saying that |
| 1:07.7 | I've been to a lot of therapy and it feels better at first but then it always gets worse and |
| 1:14.0 | I've never been helped by a therapist anymore than it would be as if I were just talking with |
| 1:20.0 | people online. And yeah that individual's experience isn't necessarily that uncommon. It's hard |
| 1:27.0 | to find a good fit. It's hard to find a good therapist that matches with you. It's hard to even know |
| 1:33.1 | what sort of therapist to look for for most people. It's really hard to you know when you have a |
| 1:36.7 | toothache you go to a dentist but when you have some difficulty in your life like your relationships |
| 1:42.6 | aren't going well or maybe you have some suicidal thoughts you don't necessarily know exactly what |
| 1:47.6 | sort of therapist you should go to and a lot of therapists don't know who they should be accepting. |
| 1:53.1 | They think that they're competent with all sorts of things that they might not necessarily be |
| 1:57.5 | competent in. So is it possible for an individual to have gone to therapy and have it not only not |
| 2:02.7 | helped them but to harm them and to conclude maybe all therapy is bad. You know I could see that |
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