Rewind: Will YOUR Relationship Fail? 3 Questions to Find Out

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 13 June 2025

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

This week’s video will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.

I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you.

I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving the relationship is the only option.

Understanding this model may just save your self-respect, sanity, and happiness. And once you know how it works, red flags will be much easier to spot.

This is a video you’ll also want to return to anytime you’re stuck in that fog of fear and confusion and want to feel a sense of clarity . . . so you can stop second-guessing your choices and move on with confidence.

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0:00.0	They are incredibly selfish, but they're also really charismatic.
0:05.0	So, you know, all you're saying is I'm using their charisma as an excuse to ignore their selfishness. There are three questions.
0:32.6	I want you to ask yourself to help determine whether you should stay or go in the situation you're in.
0:43.8	And you might be in a situation where that means, should I keep dating someone?
0:49.5	It's in the early phases and I don't know whether to continue knowing what I know about this person
0:55.4	and their behavior. Or you might be in the position of finding it very difficult to let someone
1:00.9	go and fully make a break from someone that you've been in a relationship with and you're trying
1:07.0	to use this video to decide whether to go back or not.
1:24.6	Number one, is there big flaw offset by a truly redeemable quality? Something negative we may bring to the table can be offset by a beautiful quality. Something negative we may bring to the table can be offset by a beautiful quality or trait.
1:32.9	So for example, there are some universal redeemable traits. Humility is a really important one.
1:39.6	If someone has self-awareness, then they are aware of the thing that needs to be worked on.
1:46.6	If someone has real empathy, then they're able to see how this part of them affects you negatively
1:53.3	and feel that and use that as inspiration and motivation to change.
1:58.2	If someone values teamwork, then they have the desire to be a great partner
2:04.5	to you and see healing themselves as part of being a great partner. If they're growth-minded,
2:12.3	it means they have the fuel, the impetus to actually do the work that's necessary to heal this part of themselves.
2:21.3	And there are more, of course, kindness, compassion.
2:24.3	These are traits that can do an awful lot to offset the negative effects of that floor. If somebody doesn't have the neutralizing counterbalance
2:39.4	to that negative quality, or that demon, let's call it, it becomes what I think of or call it a
2:47.9	dark pairing. If you followed my work for a long time, you know I use the phrase a lot, unique pairings
2:53.6	in a positive sense.
2:54.6	Unique pairings are the pairings of qualities in a person that make them irresistible, that
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