You may have an ideal path in your mind.

That doesn't mean it's going to be your path.

And you can't screw up your path because it's your path.

Welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast. I am Matthew Hussey and this is a clip from the archives that I think is really going to help you today.

Check it out and I'll speak to you at the end of the episode.

I think as a woman personally I think that being single when you want to be in a relationship and you're looking for love, being single at a certain point in your life is really hard.

It's unbelievably isolating and difficult and makes you feel like there is something wrong with you.

And it's scary as well.

So I think everybody is impervious to that feeling.

Some people get lucky where they meet people when they're a little bit younger and maybe in their late 20s and they just hit that kind of sweet spot of just meeting somebody they want to settle down with at a time that makes sense for you to settle down.

I think that let it just be said that nobody is impervious to how hard that is and how difficult it would be.

And I think if you find yourself in that situation, whoever you are, you will have, as in the situation being you are single, you are looking for love, you want to be in a relationship and it's not going anywhere.

I think that is not finding that connection. I think that is an unbelievable, unbelievably difficult situation to be in.

And I don't think you can necessarily, you can do things to quiet in it but I think it is just an ongoing struggle because until you do meet someone you will have that fear that you're not going to.

If that's something you really want, you're essentially scared of not getting the thing that you really want which is terrifying, whatever area of your life.

But I think also realizing that everybody is kind of one breakup away or one situation away from being single.

And no one is safe in terms of no one is safe in their relationship, in their jobs, in their lives, in their looks, in anything, nothing is for certain.

So we're not completely alone when we're in that situation. It's not a case of like you're the freak over here who hasn't got what they want and everybody else does because no one is safe.

And that's what levels the playing field really. I mean we think that it's so uneven between people who are in relationships and people who are not.

But anything can change at any moment for anybody. And does often.

So there is a sense in which there people are always entering and leaving the relationship room of life.

But I do think that people would benefit from separating the...

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