(Rewind): What People Really Fall in Love With…
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 31 March 2023
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
But people don't fall in love with characteristics. And comparison will always leave us with more anxiety and self-sabotage than learning to love what we have.
In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the problem of comparison and what really makes someone fall for you.
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| 0:00.0 | People don't fall in love with features. They fall in love with a package. |
| 0:04.0 | I'm gonna repeat that. People don't fall in love with features. They fall in love with a package. |
| 0:10.0 | We put out this question. Is there someone who your partner or someone you're dating has in their life? |
| 0:36.0 | Who is attractive and who makes you feel insecure or anxious or jealous? |
| 0:41.0 | Which doesn't mean there's anything untoward going on. |
| 0:44.0 | It just means that maybe they have a coworker that they go to work and see every day. |
| 0:49.0 | Maybe it's an ex that they don't even speak to anymore. |
| 0:53.0 | But you happen to have seen pictures of their ex on Instagram and that shit made you jealous. |
| 0:58.0 | Or it made you insecure. |
| 1:00.0 | Or it may be a friend that they have where it's completely platonic. |
| 1:04.0 | But that friend happens to be very attractive and you find yourself comparing yourself to him or her. |
| 1:11.0 | Are you in a situation where that is ridding you of your peace? |
| 1:15.0 | Where comparison with someone else is ridding you of your peace? |
| 1:19.0 | 72% of our audience said yes and I hate that feeling. |
| 1:26.0 | So 72% the vast majority of people said that there was someone in their partner's life. |
| 1:34.0 | Or I think we can say this is not just about having a long-term partner. |
| 1:38.0 | But in early dating, there's someone who is making me feel anxious. |
| 1:44.0 | Let's talk about this. |
| 1:49.0 | I want to talk about how comparison ridges of our peace and what we can do about it. |
| 1:53.0 | What are your thoughts on this Steve? |
| 1:55.0 | I mean comparison definitely does rid you of your peace in all areas of life. |
| 2:01.0 | And the thing is what I've realized is it doesn't matter how successful or how much you improve yourself. |
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