Anyone who's in a position where you don't hear a lot from them, you can project onto them what you want to project onto them.

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There's a volatility to it, but it's like this person knows what they want and today it's me and that's so exciting, but tomorrow it's something else and oh no it's not me and you know I want them to be thinking about me. There's a volatility to all of that.

And a mystery.

I think the mystery is a huge part of it. I think the unknown is so much more luring than the story that's already told in front of us and someone who's more available is way more likely to be open about who they truly are versus painting a picture of a mystique.

That is an amazing point. That is so so true because it is it's so easy to do you know what I've thought this about models a lot.

Like male and female you know like the rock the male rock star who's like you kind of like he says very little in interviews. You know what I mean just doesn't say a lot just like someone asked him something and they're like yeah you know it's a mumble answer.

And they didn't really say much.

But it's like the less they say the better because you can project on to them whatever you want you don't quite know what they're thinking man a few words and then in pictures they're very

palae so you don't even have the vulnerability of a smile a lot of the time lots of palae pictures lots of like just mystery mystery mystery mystery.

And it's so easy.

It's such an easy way to be mysterious.

It's so true actually with models you see pictures and then you happen to see a video of them doing something and you go oh.

I didn't realize you sound like that or it's not there's nothing anything wrong with them. It's more that they suddenly become a real person and it's just instantly less attractive than you know a mysterious static image.

Yeah and that so much of that call is like a cultivated call and the people by the way that a lot of famous people are really really really good at cultivating that call like that is their super power.

And it's one of the reasons that like social media has become has been such a disaster for so many celebrities is because they're this so when you really like hear them talk about something.

Sometimes you're like oh you're an idiot.

Twitter is ruined Hollywood.

Yeah. If you had if you had Leo live tweeting Titanic.

On HBO I don't think he would go that well right right the mystique is broken well Leo like is a good example you know who I did so hard to know.

Like what he thinks because you see so little of him and that anyone who's in a position where you don't hear a lot from them you can project.

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