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🗓️ 18 October 2024
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Have you ever been with someone you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all their friends that they just “weren’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce they’re in a serious relationship or even getting married?
When this happens, we think, “What did the person they committed to do that I didn’t?!”
What makes someone suddenly decide to commit?
In this week’s video, I not only dive into the answer to this question, but I also give you 4 practical pieces of psychology you can use to influence someone’s desire to commit to you.
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0:00.0 | If you've been going through your love life finding that there almost feels like there's an epidemic of people who don't want to commit or who are struggling to commit, that is not your fault. Hey everyone this episode is a rewind episode one from the archives let me know what you |
0:34.9 | think send me an email afterwards podcast at Matthew hussy dot com and now onto the |
0:40.2 | episode what makes to the episode. What makes a man suddenly decide to commit? |
0:49.0 | I want to talk about that in this video. |
0:50.6 | I also want to give you four practical pieces of psychology that you can use to become the kind of person that someone wants to commit to. |
1:00.0 | I think there are two types of people loosely who commit. |
1:08.0 | There is the person that commits out of sheer passion and dopamine and oxytocin who just in this feeling of, |
1:19.5 | oh my God, you're my person, lightning struck struck I must have you I must commit to you |
1:26.1 | you and I are going to build a life together decides to commit to that person and |
1:31.9 | then there's the person who I think of as soberly |
1:37.8 | committing based on a series of decisions and assessments about the way their life has been going and the way they |
1:47.6 | would like it to go. |
1:49.1 | Now in the case of the first person, I think we have a natural skepticism about that kind of person |
1:57.1 | because we're aware in ourselves that passion can be very fickle and that just as quickly as they decided they must have someone |
2:05.4 | and be with them forever, they can decide, actually this isn't what I want. |
2:10.6 | Doesn't mean that that couple won't stay together. It's just that we |
2:14.8 | know that that couple still has all their work ahead of them in staying together. |
2:21.1 | It's one of the reasons I think that when you have an older couple |
2:25.8 | at a much younger couple's wedding, there is a sort of that not a, it doesn't even have to be a skepticism, just a knowing that there's a long road ahead. |
2:37.0 | In the case of the sober person, I use that word somewhat intentionally, because it conjures for me the image that is true for so many people which is that person who's been going through their life living on a kind of dopamine cycle of dating and casual sex or intimacy a person who's been kind of cycling through people looking for that passion |
3:07.7 | looking for that passion and then the moment they get bored of that moving on again and just constantly cycling |
3:15.7 | through these emotions with a very kind of addict-style behavior. I think we have a |
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