(Rewind): Text Him This ONE Word To Get His Attention

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 19 August 2022

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you feel them pulling away...

What's up with that?

When someone you like disappears and then reappears, it's easy to drive yourself crazy trying to work out the BEST way to get their attention again. You think, "Do I ignore them to teach them a lesson? Do I play it cool and pretend it was no big deal? Or do I show them I'm hurt that they disappeared?"

In this clip, I share with you an exact text message you can send them that will demonstrate your standards in a really attractive way.

If you want more of these texts, head over to WhatToTextNext.com, where you can download my FREE guide that gives you my 'Relationship Reframe Text' and helps you move from casual text exchanges to real emotional connection.

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0:13.6	holidays title music playing
0:09.9	[♪тр料 j up feeling
0:09.8	with the
0:18.6	bahn
0:19.1	as the
0:24.1	Hey everybody, it's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life podcast.
0:31.5	I am excited to share this clip with you today.
0:35.1	Let's get into it.
0:39.4	The other day I was told a story by someone who had a guy coming in and out of her life
0:43.9	constantly.
0:45.6	And she got to a point where she was so sick of him showing investment and then disappearing.
0:50.0	But one day when he texted her asking her to go to dinner after having disappeared for
0:54.6	weeks, she just messaged him back and said, hey listen, I like you, but this dynamic we
1:01.0	have where we start things up and then things go away again and then we start them up again,
1:07.4	it's just become boring to me.
1:09.5	Like it's no longer interesting.
1:11.6	So if we're just going to do the same thing again, let's not bother with this.
1:18.4	When I heard that story, I thought that it's such a powerful word to use in that context.
1:22.6	Because so often people get angry, they get upset, they get hurt and then they communicate
1:26.6	all of that.
1:27.9	And when we do that in a way, we're still building up someone's ego.
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