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Welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast.

I am Matthew Hussey and this is a clip that I think is really going to help you accelerate

your love life today.

Take it out and I'll speak to you at the end of the episode.

The second thing people listed as one of the top four reasons why they're most drawn

to their partner is when they are away, when we are apart and then reunite.

So the idea of being apart and then reuniting some clichés, perhaps all clichés or a

cliché for a reason, the cliché of absence makes the heart grow fonder.

I've thought a lot about that phrase.

What does it actually mean absence makes the heart grow fonder?

Well when we get space from someone, we have the ability to A, experience what it's like

when their light isn't shining on us, which means two things.

One we're feeling the absence of that light.

We're feeling the absence of that energy in our life.

So there's a loss there.

But there's also the knowing that it's going somewhere else, that something or someone

else or many other people are getting that light.

And that in some way makes us want to reclaim that light, albeit there's unhealthy ways

of looking at that.

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