All the work is ahead of you if someone says that they would like to change

and are willing to do what it takes.

If someone isn't even doing that, it's science fiction.

The idea that they're going to change.

Hey everyone, it's Matthew Hussey with The Love Life Podcast.

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I had a really interesting situation where

someone said to me, they were talking about how

their ex, they felt like their ex was right for them,

but they'd just broken up the week before.

And I was saying to this person, I see no reason why he's going to change.

Like, what indication has he given you that he's going to change?

And my friend said, well, I just, you know, we argue about this stuff.

I said, but has he actually acknowledged these things

that you have a problem with?

Has he acknowledged them and showed a genuine commitment

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