The worst thing a person can do is text the person saying,

Oh my God, I can't believe we did that last night,

or I was so drunk last night,

or in any way making excuses for the fact that they slept together,

or insinuating regret. So, you had sex with him.

Now many people think that once a man has sex with a woman, she gives up her power and

he begins to lose interest.

But I don't think your power is in having sex with a man.

Your power is in what you do afterwards.

So in this video, I'm going to talk you through three things that not only allow you

to maintain your power, but actually make him want you

more after the fact. Number one, don't be weird. Many people, after waking up, having

slept with someone, an intimate act, then all of a sudden start behaving really awkwardly,

like the few hours of sleep in between drove this giant wedge between them.

And now, instead of being warm and affectionate, they're kind of cold and neurotic.

They're worried about their hair or their breath.

They're scrambling for their clothes, trying to make sure that that person who's just

slept with them doesn't see their naked body. It's a shame because actually if we were calm

and in a good state and happy and positive and just had a playful vibe with that person in the

morning, they'd see us as much more confident and in control. So, in the morning,

here's what you do. You give a little deadline. You say to him, I have to go soon. I have so much

to do today. And then you give him a big cuddle. Because then when you're cuddling up to him,

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