The connection and chemistry she says is everything she ever wanted, but then goes on to say a few weeks later,

he ghosted me, which by the way isn't everything you ever wanted. Oh, Hey, it's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast.

I am excited to share this clip with you today let's get into it

two years ago I met someone he came into my life out of nowhere and it was easy. It wasn't

obsessive, it wasn't addictive, it was just easy and good. Our connection and chemistry was everything I ever wanted. A few weeks

later he ghosted me. We eventually had a conversation. He wasn't ready for a relationship. We stayed friends.

A few months later, we tried again after being friends for six months.

It obviously didn't work again. I didn't trust him enough and it was hard.

We stayed in touch and continued to see each other, often taking things very, very slow.

And suddenly, I discovered he had a girlfriend.

It's been a year now.

I have travelled a lot and went on a solo trip to Bali.

I have dated, but nothing compares.

He once told me he saw himself marrying me,

but he wasn't ready for anything like that. He wasn't ready to be the man I needed.

We see each other around, but we never speak, and it feels as if the connection and chemistry is still there and others point it out.

How do I get over him?

How do I make myself see that he is not the person for me. Please help. I don't want to

waste another year. I think this is such a relatable email. Tell us why. You know it wasn't the great love story of you know a

five-year-long relationship where you got a dog together and had a house, I just mean that it was a lot of the time

they're very short-lived and a lot of the time you don't know why it just felt so good and

so right that it just ends up getting being the thing that

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