(Rewind): 5 First-Date Moves That Make Them Want More
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 9 March 2024
⏱️ 5 minutes
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Summary
People think going on a date with someone is simple.
You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. End of story.
Well... that’s not bad.
But do you really want to be just the “not bad” person in their head?
Wouldn’t you rather they go home in a romantic haze, unable to take their mind off this new, unendingly fascinating person who they just pray will answer their texts the next day?
Thought so.
If you really want them to miss you after only 24 hours, don’t leave the first encounter without throwing in a few of these techniques...
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| 0:00.0 | It's not like you have to start over investing on a date, but we should show someone that were attracted. |
| 0:04.4 | So early on in the date, tell him you like his shirt, or something you were attracted to in his profile picture when you saw him on the app. Every single one of us wants to make an impact when we're on a date. |
| 0:33.7 | So here are five simple things that you can do to stay in his mind long after you've said good night. |
| 0:49.7 | 1. Give him an early compliment. I know so many guys and I've been in this position before too where you get to the end of a date and you don't even necessarily know if someone's actually attracted to you. |
| 0:55.6 | And that's because you go on a date and two people were playing this poker game where neither one of them wants to reveal their hand. |
| 1:01.4 | We want to break that nonsense. It's not like you have to start |
| 1:04.8 | over investing on a date, but we should show someone that were attracted. So early on in the date, |
| 1:09.6 | tell him you like his shirt or something you were attracted to in his profile picture |
| 1:13.4 | when you saw him on the app. Give him something that shows that you are |
| 1:16.6 | attracted because that way it opens up the date to more possibilities. It makes |
| 1:20.8 | everyone feel more comfortable. It makes it more likely he'll show his interest in you and at the end of the date he will not be questioning whether there's a spark. |
| 1:29.6 | Number two, be friendly to the people around you. |
| 1:32.2 | When a guy on a date sees you being nice to people. be friendly to the people around you. |
| 1:32.6 | When a guy on a date sees you being nice to people |
| 1:35.1 | that you don't need to be nice to, |
| 1:36.9 | it shows your true character. |
| 1:38.6 | So whether it's being nice to the person serving you, |
| 1:41.3 | or whether there's a woman next to you at the bar who has to |
| 1:44.1 | shuffle over so that you two can sit down and you say to her I love your jacket by |
| 1:48.8 | the way or you have great style it shows him your warm nature it also has the added bonus that when you interact with someone else for a few seconds |
| 1:57.6 | he gets to observe you without the pressure of interacting with you. |
| 2:03.0 | And it's in the moment where we get to observe someone |
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