When that person you don't see that often says, hey, this thing's going on if you want it to come,

instead of being like, oh no, I'm kind of busy, actually say yes. Oh, Hey, it's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast.

I am excited to share this clip with you today let's get

into it.

Why have so many people unhappily single I I had one of my members say to me on a webinar recently,

I decided nine months ago to start looking again for love, a partner and nine months in I still haven't met

anyone I'm starting to get frustrated I'm starting to lose hope and just I

start to wonder why I'm still doing this.

And in her tone I could tell that she was a

quite a goal-oriented type A person

and that because she wasn't getting the result, she was getting very frustrated.

Of course our love life isn't an area we can control in quite the same way that we can other things. We can have a huge degree of influence

on the direction of our love life, but we can't control if the right person

comes into our life this week or next week. We just have to keep putting ourselves in the right spot,

doing the right things and know that at some point that will be a byproduct. The challenge is how to

enjoy the journey along the way whilst it's not happening

and we have to go from basing our happiness around getting the result around

meeting the person to expanding our lives in what in pursuit perhaps or not

even in pursuit of that makes it sound like that's the only goal.

We have to expand our lives, knowing that meeting the right person may be a byproduct of expanding our lives.

And I want to give you three potential ways of looking at this, three things you could do.

One way to expand our lives is to look at the needs that we have to meet every week.

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