So we have to stop asking whether someone likes us and start asking, do I see genuine progress? Welcome to the Love Live Podcast. It's me, Matthew Hussey. Enjoy this classic clip from our archives.

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So I thought I'd do a video today where I just pointed out some of those quiet signals, those unconscious things that we may

feel but not necessarily be able to put our finger on, that show that someone isn't serious

so that you cannot waste any more of your time on that person. Okay, let's do this. The first subtle sign that somebody

isn't serious is inconsistency in communication or inconsistency in energy. Let's start with communication.

It may be that you'll have a two-day period where they're really active and then two weeks

where you barely hear from them.

When someone is serious, there tends to be a sense of them.

They may be busy.

They may have a lot going on, but there is the sense that they want you to know that they

haven't fallen off the radar. There is the sense that they want you to know that they haven't fallen off the radar. There is the sense that

they want you to know that they actually like you and that they're interested in seeing you again.

When someone feels like they're very active in communication in one minute and then they fall off the

radar the next, that usually is a sign that they're not serious about showing you

that they want to be an ongoing person in your life and that they want progression, which is a very

important word, progression. Now, that inconsistency of communication also extends to inconsistency in energy.

When you notice that there are quite significant or even drastic changes in someone's energy,

that's often a sign that they're not serious.

It's usually a sign that this person enjoys having an experience with you, but doesn't actually want to create

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