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🗓️ 7 November 2025
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Using his trademark humor, Dan Seaborn challenges couples to assess the “friendship level” of their marriage and encourages them to go deeper. He explains how to overcome petty arguments by not trying to "fix" our spouse. Dan also touches on the value of taking good care of our bodies and cultivating emotional oneness by treasuring our spouse’s extended family.
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| 0:00.0 | God is at work and he's calling his people to rise in truth. Truth Rising is a powerful new documentary from Focus on the Family and the Colson Center. See how ordinary Christians choose courage in a culture that needs truth. Watch Truth Rising today and find out how you can become an agent of restoration and hope. |
| 0:24.1 | Visit truthrising.com today. That's truthrising.com. |
| 0:30.9 | How do you build a deeper relationship when it's never been modeled for you? It's why today I'm |
| 0:35.4 | challenging you to take your marriages to another level |
| 0:38.0 | because I want your kids to see something better. I want this culture to see something better. |
| 0:44.0 | Well, that's Dan Seaborne, and he's our guest again today on Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, |
| 0:49.3 | offering practical encouragement for your marriage. Thanks for joining us. I'm John Fuller. Dan has a very humble, |
| 0:57.0 | humorous approach to the ups and downs of married life. And last time he shared how the Lord |
| 1:01.8 | convicted him of being too critical and argumentative with his wife, Jane. To the point where |
| 1:07.9 | during one fight, Jane became very despondent and said, I was just hoping we could |
| 1:13.3 | live out the rest of our days together peacefully. Yeah, you can hear her heart there. And Dan, |
| 1:18.6 | as a full-time speaker and marriage coach, was a bit taken aback by that because he thought |
| 1:23.8 | things were pretty good. Right. And that led Dan to some deep conversations with |
| 1:28.1 | the Lord, where he began to discern the principles he's been sharing with us. If you miss part |
| 1:33.9 | one of Dan's presentation yesterday, please visit our website. We are including this entire message |
| 1:39.9 | in a free collection of audio downloads called Nurturing the Heart of Your Spouse. |
| 1:45.1 | Or get the Focus on the Family app for your smartphone to access all of our episodes. |
| 1:50.6 | Yeah, and you can learn more when you follow the link in the show notes. |
| 1:54.2 | Here now is Dan Seaborne speaking at New Tribe Church in Mount Juliet, Tennessee on today's Focus on the Family with Jim Daley. |
| 2:06.1 | So here we go. |
| 2:07.5 | Number next, developing a genuine friendship. |
| 2:13.3 | There are plenty of people who are married who aren't friends. |
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