Return to Masculinity | ELLIOTT HULSE
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9.1K Ratings
🗓️ 2 April 2019
⏱️ 60 minutes
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Summary
With regards to being a man, it seems to me that society has watered down and diluted the definition of masculinity. And, although we may not consciously realize it, the shift from "capable man" - strong, bold, courageous, and proficient - to something else entirely has impacted the way we show up in our lives.
Today, I am joined by the one and only Elliott Hulse to talk about that societal shift and how they've influenced our thoughts and actions. We talk about why boys and men need to be initiated, the importance of the Patriarchy, how hierarchies serve men effectively, and why we need to return to masculinity.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
- Why boys and men must be initiated
- The critical component of any masculine initiation
- How to spot pseudo initiations
- How men work best together compared to women
- How to increase your sexual power
- Why your old self must die
- How men can "atone to their fathers"
- The importance of the Patriarchy in society
- How to destroy your inner beta
- The challenges of public education for boys and men
- Why a man needs to heal his "inner feminine"
- Developing patterns for success as a man
- How hierarchies serve men effectively
- How to develop the mature masculine
- Why men have inappropriate relationships with their women
ELLIOTT HULSE
Today I am joined by a man I know a lot of you follow, Mr. Elliot Hulse.
I've been following Elliott for some time now and after dozens and dozens of requests to get him on the podcast, I reached out and made it happen.
Elliott is a strength and conditioning coach and built up much of his reputation by teaching others how to develop physical strength. But his idea of strength goes so much deeper than that and covers not only physical but mental and emotional as well.
Lately, he's been talking a lot about the demise of masculinity and how we, as men, can reclaim and become more masculine and how it would serve us well to do it. I knew this one would be interesting and unique to what we've done in the past. I think you're going to enjoy it and get a lot from our conversation which, based on how it went, will be one of many more conversations.
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| 0:00.0 | With regards to being a man, it seems to me that society has watered down and diluted the |
| 0:04.5 | definition of masculinity. And although we may not consciously realize it, the shift from capable man, |
| 0:10.4 | strong, bold, courageous, proficient to something else entirely has impacted the way we show up |
| 0:16.8 | in our lives. Today, I am joined by the one and only Elliott Holes to talk about that societal shift |
| 0:21.8 | and how it has influenced our thoughts and actions. We talk about why boys and men need to be initiated, |
| 0:27.7 | the importance of the patriarchy, how hierarchies serve men effectively, and why we need to return |
| 0:33.6 | to masculinity. You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, |
| 0:38.6 | and boldly charge your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, |
| 0:43.9 | every time. You are not easily deterred and defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life, |
| 0:51.0 | this is who you are, this is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, |
| 0:57.2 | you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Mickler and I |
| 1:02.6 | am the host and the founder of this podcast and the movement that is Order of Man. I want to welcome |
| 1:07.5 | you today, whether you're listening in for the first time or you've been with us for just over |
| 1:12.7 | four years now. This is a place where we have conversations, critical conversations with regards |
| 1:18.4 | to what it means to be a man and how we can more fully show up as fathers, husbands, business owners, |
| 1:24.3 | community leaders, coaches, teachers, and every other area and facet of life that we're showing up |
| 1:30.0 | as. And to that end, we're having these powerful conversations with my guest today, Elliot Hulse, |
| 1:34.9 | but we've had other men on the show, high achieving men, successful men like Jockeau, |
| 1:39.6 | Willink, Grant Cardone, Andy Frasilla, Tim Kennedy, David Goggins, and the list just goes on and on |
| 1:45.6 | with regards to who we've had on the show. We also have a Ask Me Anything show, which is released |
| 1:51.6 | tomorrow every Wednesday, where Kip Sorenson, my co-host and I field questions from our exclusive |
| 1:57.2 | Brotherhood, the Iron Council, and also from our Facebook group, which by the way, if you're not |
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