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We all have marital expectations, but do you believe your spouse can do no wrong?

Or maybe you are just waiting for them to mess up. You know it's going to happen. Neither of those is a particularly healthy

perspective, but both of them are pretty common. I'm John Fuller, along with Greg Smalley, and today we're going to continue

hearing about a story of infidelity and healing.

Here now are Mona and Gary Shriver talking with Jim Daly.

Now, Mona, I want to pull you into the story because the women listening are going

Mona come on why weren't you observing something what happened for you it was like

you did not know I did not know they were very good at keeping the relationship separate I I thought it was

cool that they were good friends we were all good friends we were doing life together

and here's where I made some mistakes because I thought Gary was better than that too.

And the reality is, no one is.

Adultery is an equal opportunity sin. It transcends even spiritual maturity. And so the point was I

used to say I'd have to catch him literally to ever believe he do anything. And I forgot what God said in

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