we welcome you now to a true church perspective with pastor g Craig lewis you have gifts god has

given you gifts and i i i really believe my gift is one of probably major gift that guys

give me is understanding just being able to know where a person is coming from when they're doing

what they do i you know and i take that coming from when they're doing what they do.

And I take that into consideration when I'm dealing with people.

Just got to know where they're coming from.

You'll get mad at a whole lot of people if you expect them to react the way you react all the time.

That's what husbands and wives, that's the biggest issue between a husband and a wife.

That's y'all both expecting the other to do what you think they ought to do. That's a man and a woman. There's no way that woman. Woman, you're not going to get that man to do what you think he ought to do all the time. You know why? Because he's not a woman.

Man, same thing. You're not going to get that woman to do what you think she ought to do.

So when you understand that, then you'll understand. You'll get an understanding. So when she yells at you for leaving the toilet seat up, and you're thinking, why did you just back into it anyway?

I mean, in the man's mind, it's like, well, I mean, it seemed like you would...

But in a woman's mind, why would I have to?

I shouldn't have to if you let it down.

But in the man's mind, yes, you do have to because I don't let it down.

Thus, we have a conundrum.

And see how that could just start an argument and a divorce.

A divorce.

Why do you leave your clothes on chairs man well because i know you you like to pick them up off of

them i don't like to i have to but because you do i lay them there.

Well, I'm not picking them up no more.

You don't have to because I'm all right with them laying there.

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