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Yqbal We typically overlook that which is positive and we take it for granted and we concentrate on that

which is negative that which is positive we don't even think about it I'll give

you a simple example we don't value our health until it's taken away.

We don't value the fact we don't have a headache until we have a headache.

We don't value the fact how easy it is for us to be walking around until my foot or your foot is a problem.

We have to then go in crutches.

We don't value what we have until it's taken away.

So our prophet,

so Allah has said, let no person only look at the negatives of his or her spouse.

For every negative there will be positives. Look those positives as well so this is a

second way that we can reconcile marital dispute there is no doubt that your

spouse has certain things that are irritating for you, just like you have things

that are irritating for your spouse.

Rather than concentrate on that list of negatives, take a step back and say, okay, what's the positives?

Perhaps one spouse might be, I don't know, maybe a little bit

complaining about one issue.

Okay, let's look at some of the positives.

Maybe that spouse is really good as a parent.

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