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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

RESET from a Hopeless Marriage (with Out of the Dust Music)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9757 Ratings

🗓️ 6 June 2023

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

Is there something in your life you want to change? I sure hope so, because healthy people are always on the trajectory of learning, and growing, and healing. Maybe it’s your negative thinking that’s keeping you stuck.  Maybe you find your emotions are overwhelming you with fear, hopelessness, shame, anxiety, or depression.  Maybe you’re struggling in your relationship with God.  Maybe you’re stuck in a pattern of unhealthy relationships.  Maybe it’s behaviors that are sabotaging your life like an addiction or unhealthy habits.  It could be your attitude, your mindset, or your perspective on life that needs to shift.  Whatever it is – in order for change to happen, it has to start from the inside out.  My new book RESET is all about getting healthy from the inside out. It’s a book of 31 practices that will guide you into the process of healing, by giving you practical steps that will transform your life with changes that last.   In honor of my new book, over the next few weeks, we’re diving into different areas of your life that might be in need of a RESET.  We’ll be talking through everything from unhealthy thinking, to your relationship with God, to your marriage, trauma history, body image, boundaries, and everything in between. We’re going on a journey of resetting from our default mode, and learning to do it differently!  ___ Today we talk to a couple with a remarkable story. After years of functioning in an unhealthy marriage, they reached the lowest point… and ultimately got a divorce. During that period of time, things begin to change and shift. And as God healed them on an individual level… They were eventually reunited again in marriage. Their story is powerful, and a testament to God can do when we trust him with our individual healing. If you are struggling in relationships today… The best thing you can do is get yourself healthy, standing alone. Take some time to listen to this incredible story… and be inspired to reset in your own life. RESET: Powerful habits to own your thoughts, understand your feelings, and change your life is officially available TODAY anywhere books are sold!!! Grab a copy for you and someone you love and let’s begin to DO IT DIFFERENTLY. DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season, Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast answering listener questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.1

My new book Reset is now available anywhere books are sold. I'm so excited to get this book in your

0:36.3

hands and I would be so grateful if you'd grab a

0:38.8

copy for you and someone you love today on Amazon or anywhere books are sold. It's time to learn how to

0:45.3

own your thoughts, understand your feelings, and change your life. And I don't say that lightly.

0:51.7

I truly believe this is a book that is going to change your life.

0:56.6

This is the year that unhealthy patterns are going to break.

1:00.1

Wounds are going to be healed.

1:02.1

And cycles are going to be replaced in Jesus' name.

1:05.5

I'm ready for it.

1:06.8

And I know you are too.

1:08.5

It's time for a reset.

1:11.0

Grab your copy at Deborahphalata.com

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slash reset or anywhere books are sold.

1:16.5

Music Hey everyone. Welcome to the Love and Relationships podcast, a hotline style show where people call in with

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questions about love, sex, dating, singleness, and marriage, and mental and emotional health. I'm Debra

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Fuleta, and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid, unscripted conversations where I answer

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