Hey, everybody. This is part two of a three-part interview with Dr. John Duffy. If you haven't listened to

part one, go back to an earlier podcast so you can listen to that one and hopefully enjoy it.

They don't know it. You know, John, like I, so I want to go back to the feeling, you know,

feeling aliveness. And that is about yourself, about I, so I want to go back to the feeling, you know, feeling aliveness.

And that is about yourself, about hope, all these things that you say that boys right now,

it seems flat, is that I really think in our, like what can we do in our families is having

a culture of aliveness in our home.

And again, that's going to look different. But it's like,

do we as parents have things we're hopeful about? Do we have fun? Do we laugh? Do we see in every

individual in the family the light that shines from them and the gifts they have? And that's,

that sounds cheesy. Let me say that better. Do we recognize everybody's skill sets Do we, do we pay attention? Do we say, man, when you're at dinner,

you are the best because you bring up the greatest, you know, topics. Or it doesn't have to be

about perfect grades and you're the, you know, this on the football team. It's about you as a

human because that's the aliveness. Like when we talk about aliveness, sometimes parents go straight further.

I'm going to put them in a club or a sport, which is fine.

That's a whole other thing.

But this is deeper.

This is, you know, what you're describing is they don't have a sense of inner worth.

And so like how do we do that as a culture, like in our families?

First of all, what I think you said there wasn't cheesy.

Okay.

Actually, I think that's actually exactly the point.

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