Rerelease: The Early Warning Signs of an Abuser & Is This Abuse?

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 28 February 2025

⏱️ 41 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, Brandon discusses Lundy Bancroft's early warning signs of an abuser and is the way you’re being treated abuse. Plus he discusses the cycle of abuse, patterns of abuse, gaslighting, triangulation, jealousy, intimidation, control, sexual coercion, hypocrisy, blame shifting, devaluation, and much more. *** CONTENT WARNING - Physical Abuse, Sexual Coercion, & Sexual Assault is mentioned in this episode. *** To buy Lundy Bancroft's book "Why Does He Do That?' Click Here. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we discuss the early warning signs of an abuser
0:06.5	and is the way you Q&A, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick. And today we are going to discuss the cycle of abuse, early warning signs of an abuser.
0:42.3	How can you tell if the person you are with will become abusive?
0:46.9	And is the way you are currently being treated or were treated abuse?
0:53.0	But before we get to that, if you want to be a guest on our
0:57.2	Survivor's Story episodes, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page,
1:03.5	there's a button that says guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest
1:07.4	form page. Please do read all of the instructions that are there and either send us an email at
1:12.2	Narcissist Apocalypse.g.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button.
1:17.1	We need as many stories as you can send us.
1:20.2	So please do send in your stories today.
1:24.5	So before we begin our episode, just a trigger warning for everyone, we do discuss physical
1:31.2	abuse and sexual abuse, sexual coercion in this episode.
1:36.6	And today we are going to talk about the cycle of abuse, early warning asides and an abuser.
1:43.3	And some of these things are from
1:45.4	Lundy Bancroft's book, Why Does He Do That? But before we get into that, sometimes I tell
1:51.3	people, not all the time, but sometimes I'll tell people that if I could change the name of the show,
1:56.7	I would probably change it to patterns of abuse. And I say that because, you know, that is really
2:04.6	what we are talking about in the show. We're looking for patterns of abuse, abusive behavior.
2:11.3	That's what we're doing. That's what we're kind of analyzing so people can start seeing what
2:16.3	is going on in their relationships.
2:18.5	And the reason why we don't call the show patterns of abuse is because a lot of people
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