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Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Rerelease: Nancy & The Controlling Physical Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Relationships, Education, True Crime, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.7792 Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2024

⏱️ 90 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Nancy about her marriage with a controlling physical abuser. It's a story of gaslighting, defensive abuse, addiction, and smear campaigns. Plus they discuss, sexual abuse, withholding, infidelity, neglect, blaming, guilt, trauma, crazy making, health issues, invalidating police officers, isolation, rage, manipulation, post separation abuse, and coercive control. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode contains graphic descriptions of physical and sexual abuse. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.  If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.).  To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0

On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Nancy, and Nancy was married to a neglectful and blaming physical abuser.

0:12.7

It's a story of gaslighting, defensive abuse, addiction, and invalidating police officers.

0:20.8

Music addiction and invalidating police officers. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.

0:44.8

I am Brandon Chadwick.

0:47.8

And with me today, we have Nancy Botwin.

0:53.7

How are you? I'm doing well. How are you?

0:55.6

I'm doing well.

0:56.5

How are you?

0:57.5

I am doing well.

1:00.5

And today's episode has graphic descriptions of physical abuse and sexual abuse.

1:08.0

So that's a big trigger warning for everyone.

1:14.9

And Nancy here today has told her story or he's about to tell her story very bravely. So a big thank you to Nancy for being here. And

1:21.1

if you want to be a guest on our show like Nancy is today, then go to Narcissistapocalypse.com at the top of the page.

1:29.8

There's a button that says guest form, click that button, read our instructions just like

1:33.9

Nancy did, and send us an email at Narcissistapocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest

1:41.0

form and press the submit button.

1:43.8

And Nancy sent us, when she sent her stuff in, I'm all over the place today, everyone.

1:52.1

When she sent everything in, she sent this 30 page document.

1:58.4

And from what you told me, you created this document when you were at a domestic

2:06.6

violence center. Is that correct? I did. Yes. I was sent the resources of a local domestic

2:16.2

violence center that aid and helping women starting over.

2:21.4

And I reached out to them and developed a relationship.

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