Rerelease: 10 Ways A Narcissistic Abuser Confuses You Into Believing You're The Narcissist

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 26 April 2024

⏱️ 42 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, Brandon discusses the top 10 ways a narcissistic abuser will confuse you into thinking you’re the narcissist. This episode isn't just about the crazy making, but also about discerning the truth from the lies you've been told. The silent treatment vs. taking time to yourself. The hero/saviour conundrum. Everyone loves them, it must be me. Abuse vs. self defense. Snooping. Accusations. Shame. Guilt. Doubt. Gaslighting. And much more. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.8	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we discussed the top 10 ways a narcissistic abuser will confuse you into thinking
0:40.7	you're the narcissist.
1:15.7	Thank you. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everybody. I am Brandon Chadwick. And today we are going to talk about the question that a lot of people always ask themselves,
1:17.3	am I the narcissist?
1:25.3	And it's always a big question while you're in the relationship and especially when you're out of the relationship that people have these feelings that they
1:30.4	might be the one who was the problem in the relationship.
1:35.5	And it's because of a lot of the crazy making that was going on.
1:40.2	But before we get to all of this stuff, if you want to be a guest on our Survivor Story episodes, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com.
1:51.8	Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form, click on that button.
1:55.0	You can read all of the instructions there of what to send us.
1:58.9	Fill out our guest form page, press the submit button, or send us an email at
2:03.0	Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com.
2:07.4	And when we talk about, am I the narcissist?
2:13.8	The abuser in the situation wants three things, really, either for you to feel shame,
2:24.0	feel guilt, or have doubt.
2:28.9	And whenever any of those three things are involved, you might not be able to look at the situation in a
2:40.9	normal way, normal meaning with clarity, if that makes sense.
2:57.7	So let's just discuss shame and guilt right off the back here and the difference between the two.
3:05.3	So guilt is a feeling you get when you did something wrong or perceived you did something wrong.
3:11.3	And shame is a feeling that your whole self is wrong.
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