Elsey & The Calculating Abusive Narcissist | Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 29 April 2024

⏱️ 83 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Elsey shares her story of marrying a calculating manipulative abuser. When Elsey met her abuser, she thought that since he came from a good family in the community, then he must be a good person. Sadly, Elsey was wrong. After the initial love bombing phase of their relationship, Elsey began to endure a myriad of manipulation and abuse tactics that were ever-changing. As the relationship continued, Elsey was constantly walking on eggshells, waiting for the other shoe to drop as the abuses got more severe over time. It's a story of submission, lies, rage, putdowns, identity erosion, physical abuse, sexual abuse, sexual coercion, triangulation, manipulation tactics, being right, shame, guilt, testing boundaries, love bombing, lies, mirroring, double standards, victim playing, and survival. ***CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, sexual abuse, and sexual coercion.*** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.5	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Elsie, and Elsie
0:37.4	was married to a calculating manipulative abuser.
0:41.0	It's a story of submission, lies, rage, put downs, identity erosion, and survival.
0:49.3	Music Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:11.5	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Elsie.
1:16.8	How are you?
1:18.1	I'm good.
1:19.1	Thank you.
1:19.8	How are you?
1:21.3	Well, I am doing well.
1:23.5	Thank you for asking, and thank you for being here.
1:27.0	And if you want to be a guest like Elsie is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com.
1:33.0	Top of the page, there's the button that says guest form.
1:35.2	When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page.
1:38.1	There you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com
1:43.7	or fill out our guest
1:44.8	form and press the submit button and please do send it in the format that we ask for. In today's
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