Representing Jesus in Our Marriage
Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Focus on the Family
4.5 • 1.9K Ratings
🗓️ 21 October 2021
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
If there's a lack of love in your marriage, it's good to evaluate the strength of your relationship with God. The more you prioritize obeying God, the better job you'll do at being a good spouse. John talks to Erin and Greg about what it means for couples to represent Jesus in their marriage. Featuring Guy Lia, Amber Lia, and Jean Daly.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't |
| 0:04.7 | grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I |
| 0:10.2 | take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I |
| 0:14.4 | ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't |
| 0:18.8 | shy away from challenging topics to help you share God's grace, truth, and love |
| 0:23.6 | with others. So listen to ReFocus with Jim Daley on your favorite streaming app |
| 0:28.3 | today. |
| 0:36.1 | As a believer in Christ, I just have to remind myself that how I treat Dina is a |
| 0:41.2 | direct reflection of how much I love God. That's a pretty sobering thought. But |
| 0:46.6 | the more I'm prioritizing my relationship with God, the better I'm going to be |
| 0:50.2 | doing, loving my wife. So there's an interesting correlation there. I'm John |
| 0:56.2 | Fuller, along with my focus colleagues, Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife Erin. And |
| 1:00.3 | we've got a great conversation for you to kick off today's episode. Amber and |
| 1:05.8 | Guy Leah have written a wonderful book together. It's called Marriage |
| 1:09.0 | Triggers, which of course we have here at the ministry. Here they are talking now |
| 1:13.9 | with Jim and Gene Daley about letting go of unhealthy expectations. You know, |
| 1:18.8 | Amber and Guy and Gene, I just at the end here, I think it's important to |
| 1:23.6 | really hone in on that idea of coveting the ideal marriage, having that |
| 1:29.3 | high, high impossible expectation, I guess, Amber, that you describe in your |
| 1:33.3 | book. I want to again address that. Why is that really one of the most |
| 1:39.0 | damaging things to a marriage? When you have an idol in your thinking, and you |
| 1:44.7 | don't even realize it, because your spouse is not living up to your |
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