REPOST: 303-Communication Secrets, Part 2
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
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🗓️ 9 December 2022
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
This is the next part of Communication Secrets and I think it's an important addendum.
We talk about what to do when you're disappointed with your spouse.
When you want them to change.
When you feel they were irresponsible.
I have two examples for you:
1 - When a friend was irresponsible and God brought conviction even when He kept me from saying anything.
2 - When I was irresponsible (I know---unbelievable!) and God brought conviction even when my husband didn't say anything.
I hope this brings you encouragement, direction, and skills as you attempt to live God's way in your marriage.
Love,
Belah
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We haven't argued in months. Based on a DYM [Delight Your Marriage] podcast that I listened to before starting MR [Masculinity Reclaimed], I began the process of responding in ways that fully prevented arguments, so it's been more than 12 weeks without an argument. That was a massive game-changer for me and our relationship.
God has called me to a far deeper level with His word than ever before. The Holy Spirit has downloaded significant insight regarding how to love. This was done as a combination of scripture, DYM [Delight Your Marriage], and clarity provided during prayer."
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:17.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:20.0 | Okay, welcome back. I'm so grateful that you're Delight your marriage. |
| 0:23.8 | Okay, welcome back. |
| 0:25.7 | I'm so grateful that you're joining me. |
| 0:29.0 | Today we're going to be talking about communication secrets. |
| 0:35.7 | Now, I did the first part of this last week, and this is a continuation of that. And I encourage you to listen in and see how you might need to be shifting your perspectives around communication and gaining some new tools. |
| 0:49.6 | So in my last conversation with you about communication, I encouraged you to do a couple of things. |
| 0:58.1 | One is not to expect your spouse to be your best friend. |
| 1:02.0 | They are coming from a very different world than you. |
| 1:06.4 | And they're either a man or a woman. |
| 1:08.9 | And they are completely different humans than you and assume that |
| 1:14.5 | don't assume that they're coming to a conversation with the same worldview and the same mindset and |
| 1:22.0 | even the same culture regardless of whether or not they're actually from the same geographic culture, if you will, |
| 1:30.0 | but they're coming from their own family and their own history and their own experience |
| 1:35.2 | and what was normal in their family. |
| 1:37.4 | That's what they're bringing to your marriage. |
| 1:40.1 | And so that's what I encourage you in our last conversation is to assume that you're going to be crafting a new culture in your marriage and it's not going to be the same as what you grew up with. |
| 1:51.4 | The other thing I encourage you to do is not argue. |
| 1:54.3 | And when I say that, I don't mean don't have disagreements. |
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