Hi this is Back for Lashes and I wanted to let you know that my new album The Dream of Delphi, is out now.

It's about the raeness and the intimacy

and the cosmic amazingness of motherhood

and giving birth to my daughter Delphi.

I hope you enjoy. And Hey guys it's Kayla I am so happy you're able to join us today because we are all still

so directionally challenged we thought we'd have it all figured out by the time we were in our

30s but surprise we don't and that's okay it really is okay

boy slut did the name of this episode catch your eye did you have to do a double

take because I did the first time today's guests reached out

Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist sex expert and activist whose work

focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ plus community.

He is the author of Boy Slutt, a memoir and manifesto.

Boy, Slutt will help you understand

the structural systems in place that cause us pain, sadness, anxiety, and anger. It will speak to why so many

relationships fail and why a great number of people on this planet are unsatisfied with their sex

lives. We talk about this and so much more. I'm really

excited to share with you my interview with today's guest, Zach Riesane.

Guys I'm here with Zach Riesane. I'm obsessed with him. I'm so happy you're here.

I was we were just talking off Mike before this and I was saying we haven't had an

episode like this on this podcast and I get a little nervous to talk about sex and this is the whole

point of your book and this is why we're having this conversation and I don't I'm not just saying

this there's no one else I want to have this conversation with because you

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