Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I

take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I

ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't

shy away from challenging topics to help you share God's grace, truth, and love

with others. So listen to ReFocus with Jim Daley on your favorite streaming app

today. Thank you for downloading the focus on the family marriage podcast. You

can find more relationship insights at focus on the family dot com slash

marriage podcast. As we open this episode, let me just ask a question. What's the

worst lie you've ever been told? It might be that somebody told you they were

going to be there for an important meeting and they didn't show up or maybe it

was that there's a secret that's been hiding in your marriage and you haven't

had the chance to really understand what that means. In your marriage in life,

the best way to defeat a lie is to replace it with the truth. And we'll talk

about that today. I'm John Fuller joined by Aaron Smiley. She's a professional

counselor married to Dr. Greg Smiley and together Greg and Aaron run our

marriage team here at Focus on the Family and we're going to wrap up our

conversation. It's a multi episode discussion that Jim Daley and I had with

Greg Smiley and also Dr. Bob Paul and they discussed content in a book they've

written particularly the lies that can hurt your marital relationship. Let's get

to the last one right at the end here. It's the love lie that surrounds

compromise. Now compromise sounds like a good thing and in relationship I give

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