Hey there, it's Nick. And it's Leah. Real quick thing before we get going, Leah, do you know about

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And I'm Leah Bonama.

And we had so many great questions from you all in the wilderness.

Aoo!

That we have a bonus episode. So here we go.

Our first question is, quote, I recently hosted a picnic dinner wedding shower for a friend with a group of 11 women.

All of us are over 60. One of the guests

had committed to bringing a side dish, but showed up empty-handed. Before the event, I had several

conversations with her about her dish and how it would go so nicely with the rest of the food,

so there was not a misunderstanding. All she said as we were arriving was, they were a flop. She did not text

me, call me, or offer to at least bring a loaf of bread. Thankfully, there was plenty of other food,

all of which I made and carried to the park. I said nothing because I didn't want to spoil the

mood with everyone there, but now I wonder, what should I have said? I was very annoyed. Also, what is the time limit on

addressing this? It's been 10 days. I think that our letter writer was very gracious. And it was

appropriate not to have said anything just because it's a wedding shower. Yeah. You don't want to

make a big deal about this in the moment and kind of, yeah, I could see that instinct.

And I think that was probably correct.

I think it was very lovely of you to take the high road because you could have given her a really

nasty side eye and you just were above and beyond gracious.

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